Where do I find the time?

It's a good question; a friend disclosed that my over-scheduling is sometimes a cause for concern for some.  I parry that if I had free time, the Bride would just come up with other things for me to do, so I'd best soldier on unstintingly.

But then, seemingly out of nowhere, comes a recent picture of me making a wry expression while a guy in a fedora does an R Kelly karaoke number.  How was this possible?